I havent had any experience with online dating, but a close friend has, she actually got to the point where the guy paid her plane ticket to visit him in Perth, then, thank goodness, she was talking to him on the phone one day and he all of the suden went psycho at her. Thankfully she realised that this guy wasn't 'the one' and stopped all contact. She has also had a few other bad experiences. So I would say, be very careful, he could just be saying what you want to hear. I hope that he is genuine though and wish you happiness x