So you didn't know your xp and friend were together until they turned up?? And they expect you to be happy for them?? Doesn't sound like much of a friend to me
No its his Friends GF who is one of my gd friends well so i thought..
Claire- Your words really have helped me today you have no idea, today has been sucha horrible day i have felt so down , i dont know why i let it bother me so much! it probably sounds like nothing but just trying to stay positive at the moment throughout this whole single mum journey has been really hard DD
~Trish~ i think your right there maby he is feeling insecure i might txt him and ask him if next monday he comes alone so we can talk about trying to get along n make this whole thing work, i really want the next 18 + years to go alot more smoothly then the last 7 months have been iykwim
I really need tips /stratagies on coping with anger n anxiety it feels like every monday i have to try and phyc myself into being positive and calm to get through the day. i have to also work out what i should say to him,
Thx to all of you beautiful ladies you have brought some light into such a horrible dark day today
Hun what you're doing is no small thing - you are amazing! I can only imagine how you're feeling, but make sure you tell yourself what an amazing job you're doing, because you truly are! Gosh parenting is hard enough with a partner, so the fact you're doing it on your own and on top of it having to deal with an incompetent ex, deserves a medal! It's ok to have down days, know we're all here for you to vent any time. I can't really give advice on staying positive and calm when you have to deal with XP because you're much more patient than me!
Parenting is the hardest job I've ever done in my whole life, and I have a high-powered high-stress job as it is. Parenting, on your own, is definitely harder.
Although I do find parenting two children is better than parenting three (when XH was around LOL!)
Be true to yourself. Put yourself first - remember, happy Mummy means happy baby... and always know that you are the best Mum for your baby.
What your XP does is up to him - you can't make him reasonable, or behave normally. Those choices are up to him. Live your life for you and DD and you will be just fine.
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