I moved my kids away from their biological dad from England to here and it was the best thing I ever did. At least now there's a good reason why he doesn't see them rather than when he was 20mins and too lazy to bother.

There's no way now I'd moved away from DD2 stand in dad. He's the best thing that ever happened to her and even 40mins drive is too far for them.

I'm a strong believer in doing what's right for the children and if that means a long distance move then that's what needs to happen.

Sushee - I can't begin to imagine what it was like for you leaving your son behind. I hope you're still able to have a good relationship with him dispute the distance xx