Thanks, everyone! And Nai, LOL!

Update: we're talking on the phone sometimes, things are ok. I'm still hassling to send me and DDs things over but it's always a case of "I can't afford it!" (yet when I was speaking to him, he'd just bought McDonalds wtf?) I'm tempted to just send over a money order in the hopes that he'll use it to return our things. SIGH. He said he'd send it Saturday, so we'll just wait for saturday I guess.