It's Over! :(

[Oscar&Grouch]

thankyou so much BellyBelly- i know i deserve better and that there is someone out there for me! i think im just scared of being or feeling alone. i dont want to waste my time wondering where he is for the rest of my life!

winter and rhyb- thanks for the squishy cuddles. :hugs: they really mean alot right now! i cant even talk to friends as we share mutural friends and i have been told NOT to call or talk to his mum or our friends! just to leave them alone!

[diannescruffy]

hun, to be honest sounds like you will be better off without him. He doesn't deserve you and you don't deserve to be treated like that. It will be his loss. Will be thinking of you.

Regards,
Dianne

[AliBaby]

Big You poor thing. I am so sorry for what he is putting you through right now

[Inertia]

You are stronger than you think. ...... yes yes, i got it off my daughter who got it off barbie, but its true.

i have been told NOT to call or talk to ... our friends! just to leave them alone!

What is that about though?

[Doing my best]

i have been told NOT to call or talk to his mum or our friends! just to leave them alone!

Are you normally close to his Mum? If so, I think you should still call her. She would want to know what kind of a tool he is being, and she will more than likely help you, after all you are the mother of her grandchildren.

Maybe your friends can't understand the children side of things, but I am sure his mum will.

But in the meantime, I can offer more hugs..

[Oscar&Grouch]

me and his mother have recently become extremly close she rings me more than him!
she is aware of what a tool he is being i talked to her last night when he walked out. he is avoiding her calls also. i will call her in the morning and maybe go have a coffee with her! im just afraid i guess because at the end of the day thats "her" son iykwim?
then i think she would be highly dissapointed in his actions as she knows about his partying ways and has on several occasions tried to talk with him, he changes for a couple of days then the weekend comes the mates call and well i have old sam back!
its really like speaking to a brick wall!

[Shades]

Don't be afraid to see his mum, she may be *his* mum, but your DS and preggybelly are *her* grandchildren!!

[Shanti]

Couldn't read without offering some of these wonderful things

Hope you can get past this with your DP, and if not, then it will most probably be for the best

I'm just south of the gold coast, you're not far from me!

[Doing my best]

It must be hard, but it sounds like his Mum will look out for you! His mum knows his faults, and will always be his Mum, but she can still have time for you.

I have 3 brothers, and when one of them was a real idiot and nearly lost his wife, Mum told him to not bother coming to her till he admitted what he had done was stupid, selfish, dangerous etc, and Mum housed my SIL and children, while brother had to find alternate resources.

Also, nothing really excuses the way he is acting, but maybe if he listens to his Mum for a few days, there may be an underlying issue. It wouldn't hurt to ask her now it has come to this.

I really am sorry that you are going through this especially at a time when you should be so happy.

[Ahurani]

I have been reading this and could not reply.



You are such a strong girl and so mature. I know you can do this! Your a great mummy

[fionas]

Darl, promise me that if he comes back with his tail between his legs that you will stick to your guns and tell him that him going out partying every weekend isn't on.

Because, it really, really isn't and that's not what a father does.

[Beatrix]

Hun

Im really sorry about this, i have been there and done that, my exH chose the apparently wonderful single life over his family. Well guess what... the single life isnt that its cracked up to be for him... he is single, lonely, broke with no one...

if you ever need to talk pm me i will give you my details...

hugs