Hi Lulu, thanks for your suggestions. Unfortunately email has been a terrible way to sort things out, as invariably he will turn to insults and put-downs. I have had 4 nasty emails from him in the last half an hour. It got to the point where I had to get my IT department to ban his home email addresses from sending anything to anyone in my organisation (a large government department) because he was bombarding me with nasty emails and threatening to send his point of view to everyone I know to "defend" himself. Really, mediation is the only viable option but that won't happen overnight, and in the meantime, he seems to take any opportunity to reneg on an agreement - it used to be about things like money or me getting stuff from the house but he can't do that any more and so now it is just the girls. He is the master manipulator, and it seems everyone he knows just believes what he says. Heck, sometimes reading his emails I almost believe what he says. It's very bad for the self esteem. Really I should probably just stop reading his emails.
Yep, do that. Forward them on to someone you trust to print them off. Seems like very good evidence of an abusive relationship. If you could bear to do it xoxoxoxoxo
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