i havent made a full decision yet but due to my mental state XP and i are thinking of swapping our roles, e.g. i usually have DD 5 nights a week and he has her 2 nites, i receive the parenting payments and CS and pay for everything for DD, so swapping that completely around...
does anyone know how you go about this, law wise and centrelink wise? even though hes her dad does he still get the parenting payment or do only mums get it (tbh i have noooo idea)
also do we have to go thru court or can we just 'swap' (our current situation is a verbal agreement, no court involvment)
also cause i had a VRO on him but it was lifted before it reached court, does that make any difference to how often hes 'allowed' DD?

pls dont judge me, i would just like some good advice or anyone whose experienced this... TIA