Biiiig hugs, honey bun. The other girls have some fantastic advice for you, this is a big decision and I know you'll make the right one for you and DD, I just want you to make sure you have back-up plans in place in case something happens, kwim? Talk to someone who knows what they're on about, and decide from there how to go about doing it. Keep us posted, sweetie All the best with it! *hugs*