hi emma

I know you are going through a rough time and we would never judge you

DH used to work for CSA and I just quickly asked him. He said that if it is a private arrangement, you can just agree that you are changing with each other and then notify both centrelink and CSA about the changed circumstances. Your case manager will then let you know what that means for your CSA payments.

In regards to the VRO, I have no idea, sorry.

Goodluck hun, I know you are doing the best you can.