Is there someone that can take bubs shopping for you?? I know shes young, but for mothers day my sis and i swap kids (before she had any kids i'd give her $xx.00 and she'd take ash and get me a present)
We now have a limit of what to spend and she helps DD pick my present and I help her little man (1 year old) buy her something
We still both get a nice suprise even if it is kinda our own money!!