My husband is leaving me for another woman. (LONG)

[goddessofdawn]

It sounds to me like he wants to have his cake & eat it too.

You've hit the nail on the head! It's like he wants to pretend the separation isn't really happening, so he doesn't get to be the bad guy.

Is it fair though to stop him seeing DD every day if this is what he wants? As long as he leaves every night once she's been put to bed, he can see her every day.

Thank you all for your support and advice. It helps more than you could ever know. I'm going to ring Legal Aid tomorrow.

[HotI]

What do YOU want? He doesn't get to dictate all the arrangements. Your little girl will work it out soon enough. How will she feel if she thinks you have been hiding stuff from her?

What do you want for you?
What do you want for your kids?