i forgot to say before that Zayviers dad does an amazing job considering that he only found out he was a dad when Zayvier was 13 mths andhis family have been more than accepting its like Zays been there since he was born!!..we have had our ups and downs and this just proves that he wont put up with his gfs stuff when i thort that after the birth of their baby that it would be the oppisite..