Plan for the worst, try not to bend over backwards in order to avoid further conflict. There is ALWAYS crap in a breakup, so rather than try to minimize it - face it head on.
Yeah I have told him I'm not going. Even if I do end up doing a trip I won't be going over there for 3 months. I have been looking for jobs though so that I can get someone to move me back. My options have been severly limited now I have DD (but oh worth it soo much that I can't even explain!!). I will get there. I'm living by the quote "nobody said it would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it" I think it is by Harvey Mackay or something.
I'm sorry
Theres no way you should move out.
Wouldnt your work take it away anyway - they're not likley to let him stay in it on hiw own when its not with his job?
I agree with Lulu there is always going to be crap just manage the crap as it flies your way!
It's really important to photocopy all important documentation.
The house is your as you know - he needs to find accomodation & it won't wait 3 months... I think that becomes his concern now...
Please see a Solicitor immediately - that is the most important thing to do - they will tell you all you need to know & how to action it. Even if you do this via phone as I suspect that you might be isolated whee you are? You can usually arrange phone interviews.
Lucy in the sky with diamonds.
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