Yeah I have told him I'm not going. Even if I do end up doing a trip I won't be going over there for 3 months. I have been looking for jobs though so that I can get someone to move me back. My options have been severly limited now I have DD (but oh worth it soo much that I can't even explain!!). I will get there. I'm living by the quote "nobody said it would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it" I think it is by Harvey Mackay or something.

Thanks girls.