That sucks Laura. My ex is great with the kids etc, but it still drives me mental that he moved back in with his parents, so now he doesn't have to wash or cook meals or any of the boring stuff....ggrrrrrr.

I wouldn't be letting my 10 wk old off for overnight sleeps yet either, especially if BF. It seems this whole thing is interfering in your milk supply - I don't think anyone would think it was wrong to keep the bubba with you. The BF relationship is too sacred - maybe when baby is 6 months or so?