Newly single mum and loving it!

[smiles4u]

If ever in the middle of the night you have a second to think about it ... remember WE all here reckon YOU are doing such an amazing job & ALWAYS stand proud with your choice ... I guarantee your little lady will thank you one day with lots of kisses & cuddles

[Gigi]

good on you tattoo mama. how excellent to make a HUGE life change like that, and be so happy with the decision. that's fantastic.

i am still in the "hovering" stage. Terrified of making things worse.

[~breeze~]

Thanks so much for all of your words of support and advice! Yes its hard in the middle of the night when im absolutely buggered but XP wouldn't have helped anyway, if anything he would've made it worse by whinging about her crying etc so no loss there!

So true Glad you are seeing the positives
xxx

[phynna]

congratulations darl! I lived through 2 abusive relationships in 10 years and know exactly how hard it is to get free, you should be so so proud!

[bon]

Good on you hun You have done the best thing you could have done for yourself your beautiful baby girl

[~Serenity~]

yay tattoo mumma.....ive been thinking of you but havent seen you in the young ppl group....so glad that uve got out of there and your lil girl is doing well, you will both be so much better off now...hugs to you on your courage

[GlitterMum]

hi tattoo mama, i only just saW this thread and wanted to say i am so so happy for you. Good luck with everything xx b

[Girl-23]

Hi tattoo_mama,

I remember reading about your rental troubles and you mentioning your relationship problems. It is good to see you happy and content with your life and baby girl. Keep up the good work. Stay strong for your precious little one. Enjoy motherhood.

[widdly]

a HUGE well done Emma!!!

It sounds like you are ina really positive frame of mind about it all that is terrific,

[Macca79]

Well done you strong and wonderful woman!

You have done an amazing thing and have opened up a wonderful new life for yourself and your daughter that is free. I wish you every joy hun and just remember if things get down that help is out there (I know how PND can really hurt). Stay strong.

[Glamourcide]

Oh honey, how did I miss this!!?! Wow, I feel like a crap BB friend now lol
I'm so glad to hear that you've made the break and are feeling so secure in your decision. FWIW, I think you definitely made the right choice - XP didn't know how good he had it, and you deserve so much better. You are an awesome chick, an amazing mum, and you need a *real* man who's going to treat you the way you deserve to be treated!!
I'm so happy that your time in the M&B unit gave you the resources to get yourself together and enabled you to do what you need to do in order to be happy and focus on your beautiful little girl (seriously, I just want to wet my pants every time I look at her pics, she is just GORGEOUS!!!) - she's #1 in your life now and it's great that you can put your energy into her and yourself, and not have it all drained by a selfish partner who doesn't know (or doesn't care) that he's hurting you.

Big hugs, girl. If you need *anything*, you know where to find me. I'm so happy for you

[mybrightlantern]

Dear Tattoo-mama

Congratulations on getting your life back! That is exactly how I felt 2 years ago when I left my husband. It was like a huge weight had lifted off me. I had wanted to leave for years but it was too hard and complicated.

As hard as it has been, I have not regreted it once.

Good luck,

[ElleJay]

Thumbs up for getting out of there hun! If you ever need anything, or wanna catch up, you've got me on FB

[Isadora]

I'm so happy for you. I remember reading your post before your DD was born, you were so ready to end the relationship but just didnt know where to start. I'm so glad you found the strength, keep moving forward.