i'm new and was just hoping to find someone to talk to. I'm 28 weeks pregnant and the father of my baby walked out about 4 weeks ago. i have not heard from him since. i wasn't overly sad about him leaving me, witch i guess suggests that our relationship wasn't that great to begin with. but i cant get my head around the fact that he doesn't want anything to do with his own child! how can that be? and im not even sure i would want him around even if he did. does that make me a horrible person?
I feel for you. My baby Ashton's father walked out when I was 4 months pregnant and I haven't heard from him since. It really shows the sort of person they are. Knocked me for 6 because we were friends for years before I fell pregnant (which he wanted at the time)
I have DNA testing next week because he refuses to aknowledge Ash, so I can't get Child Support, which I need at the moment (I can't work with 3 kids 4 and under ).
You can do it, you will be fine, it's his loss, just give bubs lots of loving and be honest when the time comes... "it isn't you it's him". Love bubs like 2 parents!
When the DNA test comes back as he is the father (which he already knows he is just being a jerk) then he can take that bit of paper and stick it you know where, the hell he put me through, the crap that has gone on, the negativity and nastiness, is not something I want around my beautiful, sweet baby boy
thankyou so much. as horrible as it is, its just really nice to know i'm not the only one! i guess i just need the reassurance that i can do it by myself. thanks again
unfort if he has walked out and wont acknowledge bubs (he needs to sign birth cert) you will prob have to go downt he road of paternity testing to get his child support.
i hope he comes to his senses for bubs sake.
any way welcome to BB.. there are few single mummies around her if you ever need support
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