hi my name is molly and i am 24 and four monhs pregnant. My boyfriend has just left me to go and start his career in perth. it is something he has had planned for over a year now and as the pregnancy was unplanned i feel like i cannot hold him back from it. I am not angry with him anymore but am just really sad that he will not be here for all the important milestones. he says he wants to be here for the baby and support it in every way he can but i am just struggling to deal with my greif that my baby will not have a mother and father present at all times. i have seen on the forum that there are a few women in similar circumstances and im just looking for some advice and support as it is quite overwhelming at the moment.