That's really brilliant advice there Nadine!

I agree - to truly be able to move forward you need to deal with your feelings of loss and grief over the end of the relationship. You're in pain, it's ok to feel that pain, to mourn what you've lost as well as looking to what you will gain (your beautiful bub). Even if you do go on to reconcile, you will both do better to have dealt with the pain of the current situation before making a new start. Hang in there, this passes, i promise.

bx