Username: bubno.3 im 42
Name (just in case not telling)
No. of children: 3 ds 12 ds 4 ds 2 (nearly in oct)
Seperation: married 2 yrs together 4 April 2011 officially i shouldve told him to leave when i was told i had an affair a few weeks after the wedding... and 2 yrs to the day i took the kids and left!
Care: we do 50 50 now (only so i can work) and the ds12 his dad/oma have him when the two little ones spend the week with their dad.
Challenges: mentally getting through the first 12 months with the harrassement and continuing abuse....
18 months later : he has moved on and become a dad again and he is still being passively aggressive but it goes in ear and out the other plus i have thick skin now which he hates ..The big thing was the money but that is sorting itself out now we do the 50 care
Im loving my life now im happy although i found who my friends were and sad to say my bridesmaids werent true friends.

general comment : love bb my saving grace my sanity my friend