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thread: Single, pregnant and baby's father is making life hell!!

  1. #19
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    Oct 2012
    Queensland, Australia
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    Trust Your Intuition & Inner Strength.

    I empathise with you, having been through a similar start to my pregnancy and throughout. Noone can tell you what to do but it does make a difference to do the following:

    • surround yourself with people who have your best interest at heart...
    • Realise that you cannot control someone else's behaviour....
    • Accept that he will regret the way he is acting one day as he'll have to explain his behaviour to his own son or daughter...
    • Document and keep evidence of everything...
    • Read, order some books on Amazon about separation, single motherhood. It'll make you more prepared in a logical sense.
    • You can sort out your feelings and get closure without him
    • KNOW the truth that you are a Mother-to-be now, respect yourself and your body and value your own emotional intelligence for the sake of your baby...

    Becoming a parent is a pure and profound experience that is HIS loss if he misses out on all the ultrasounds, the birth, the early smiles, the late night cuddles...you have this pregnancy for 9 months in your whole life, savour it, it's precious & and don't let anyone ruin it.

    β€œAny intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex and more violent. It takes a touch of genius – and a lot of courage – to move in the opposite direction.” ~ E.F. Schumacher

  2. #20
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    Aug 2007
    Newcastle, NSW, Australia
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    I've been there Hun!!.
    Do what's best for you and you baby.
    I kept mine 5 years later he is just amazing and
    Life would be so dull without him.
    Keep a diary of everything incase you need evidence later.
    Like they said go to the police if you need to.

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