I empathise with you, having been through a similar start to my pregnancy and throughout. Noone can tell you what to do but it does make a difference to do the following:

  • surround yourself with people who have your best interest at heart...
  • Realise that you cannot control someone else's behaviour....
  • Accept that he will regret the way he is acting one day as he'll have to explain his behaviour to his own son or daughter...
  • Document and keep evidence of everything...
  • Read, order some books on Amazon about separation, single motherhood. It'll make you more prepared in a logical sense.
  • You can sort out your feelings and get closure without him
  • KNOW the truth that you are a Mother-to-be now, respect yourself and your body and value your own emotional intelligence for the sake of your baby...

Becoming a parent is a pure and profound experience that is HIS loss if he misses out on all the ultrasounds, the birth, the early smiles, the late night cuddles...you have this pregnancy for 9 months in your whole life, savour it, it's precious & and don't let anyone ruin it.

“Any intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex and more violent. It takes a touch of genius – and a lot of courage – to move in the opposite direction.” ~ E.F. Schumacher