Aww hun what a difficult situation!

IMO- if it was me and xp was physically abusive to my dd theres no way in the world id be letting him near her either but i dont no the exact details of ur situation so theres no right answer, i can totally understand why you are feeling the way you are hun

i would say you just need to go with your gut feeling!

ill be back with more to say dd's just getting into something lol xx