Hi all just wondering when you first broke up how did you find the strength to not go back, and to not worry that you will be alone forever

I'm so worried as I'm only young that Noone else would want me with 4 kids not to mention the extra gut stretch marks and saggy boobs from having them

I know I need to be strong but I've always hated being alone so I'm just wondering if anyone has advice on getting through the initial shock though it's no surprise

Thanks x