well ladies, I am feeling a bit confused over whether I got back with DH for the right reasons...He has been great, but I am missing my freedom and independence.

I miss just doing whatever I want whenever I want. I miss having my own money to organise how I want to organise it (even though it was bugger all money!).

That happy go lucky feeling I had when single has disappeared, but im not sure why?

So many things about DH still pee me off, like his irresponsibility with money. He is quite happy that he will never have any savings...this coming from a person who earnt 79000 last financial year I dont know if i can put up with uch an irresponsible DH. I have worked out that if i am to stay in this marriage I am going to have to come to terms with the fact that i will have to be the responible one, i cant ever rely on him to be the responsible one, not sure how this sits with me TBH.

BBL, sick DS needs a snuggle