Thanks guys i really appreciate ur replies .. i realise now why should i be upset .. we ended up having a great day instead went out to lunch with a few friends still havent heard from him but doesnt phase me its his loss(wait for his petty excuses nxt week).. like u all said hes mising out.
i just need to forget about what he does and try n get on with our life as best as we can with a stupid Xp on my back x