Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage/Loss July/August 2009
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Josh'smum- BIG CONGRATULATIONS...all the best hun!!
Tina - i like the accunpuncture, but i fell pregnant last time a few days after i saw her after 6 months TTC so i am a bit of a believer!!
Anila- How you going, keeping quiet there?
Hi to everyone else, hope you are all doing well.
AFM - Not much happening here, got my hair done yesterday and it felt SOOOO good, counting down to ob appointment next wednesday to hopefully get the all clear so we can practice BD'ing again!! Only 3 days left of antibiotics, can't wait to have them finished and get my body back to normal. Have a lovely thursday everyone, the weekend is nearing!!
morning girl's i havn't had a chance to jump on the laptop until now.
Joshmum-congrtaz! hun hope you have a great healthy pregnancy.
Tanya-don't prepare if it's stressfull just relax and keep an eye on the day's around your fertile time and any fertile sign's you get i found it stressful tempting doing opk's and trying to make sure we BD on the right day's and if we couldn't because of work ect. i'd be devo and chuck a fit and say well we missed this month cause we couldn't find 10 minute's to BD it was stressful i am enjoying the not ttc while we wait for the ok by our FS it is actually strange trying not to get pregnant.
Cat cat-go back to lilypie and make a new ticker then go into your profile on BB and change your signature delete the old ticker and add the new one.
To all my BB friend's i diddn't get to this post i havn't forgotten you i have my DH home from work with no kid's so im going to molest him( he he) talk to you all soon.
re acupuncture I am a believer too, it really helped to get my hormones back to normal when I started going last year and after my 1st D&C. I have been 3 times since this last mc but my hormones weren't coming back to completley normal (I know now that was because there was still some tissue up there)... SO now that I have had another D&C and my spotting has stopped I will get acupuncrture on Monday and be ready to get af again and then pregnant!
Sparkels I am also having a GREAT hair day due to my new GHD that arrived last week! And with a weight loss on the scales today I am feeling a million $$$$ In fact I should never have a bad hair day again GOD BLESS THH GHD
Coco: my store is at Kalbar in QLD but I post Oz wide. I currently only have to an E cup but am trying to get up to F as I have a couple of friends who are ummm..well quite frankly have MASSIVE boobies
Am feeling good again this morn...thinking I might give acupuncture a go, used to have it when I broke my back to help the muscles and thinks its great
Tina - I also have a lingerie store. I sell Maternity wear too. Its an awesone business to be in. Have you had your store for long?? Ive only been open 6 months now but am loving it. I find it distracts me a lot from thinking about TTC. Except when its quiet and i spend all day reading stuff on bb!
Tina, thanks for that! I think Im more blessed [should be cursed] than your friends
Maddison, do you sell lingerie in size 10g? and do you post I am clearly still looking for stockists outside the box.(the box being newcastle hehe)
AFM: My first AF started this morning officially since the operation. I had 2 days of spotting which I thought might have been still some endo in there, but on the onset of AF Im going to go with the gynaes forwarning that I will continue bleeding, and the spotting was old blood...
I cannot remember the last time I didnt realise my AF was "properly" here. I didnt feel it coming and got up thinking oh no im not holding my bladder as tight as I thought i was in my dream, i thought it was dripping. Anyway, it turns out it was AF!
Mt cycle before the ops went like so...
Spotting for 3 days then on the day AF was coming just before I would puff up a dress size around my hips and pelvic region, and there would be this god awful pulling, stabbing pain and then it would be like a bloodbath for 2 days not being able to sleep properly because id have to be up at all hours changing both pad & tampon...and I would be rocking myself back and forth and using a heat pack for the pain after taking pain killers...
Now, I have noooo bloating no pain...nothing! Just pimples which i am happy to have in place of having endometriosis and infertility.. and the flo is just medium Not white water rafting level...
Coco - I only have Triumph bras that go to a 10G at the moment. They have a range called Beautiful By Triumph. You can look it up on the triumph website and let me know if you like any styles.
Good news about your pain free a/f. Its great that you are having such obvious improvements since the op. I always feel bloated from just after o til a/f arrives but have very bearable period pain. Was a lot worse when i was a teenager.
I emailed him saying that "whatever they did while I was under the knife worked! Im so happy"
He emailed me and smsed me saying "is it bfp or period! please elaborate!!"
Feel so bad now!!
In saying that..Im wondering if he just then understood my dissapointment everymonth when I did elaborate.. oops..
Maddison: I love that range!! Will have to get in touch with you when we're back from hollidays and ill stock up Could you send me your details via PM??
Coco -=- Congrats on AF! Yay ive got my fingers crossed for you that this next month is your time to shine! 10G!! how can someone be as skinny as a 10 and have G sized boobs! LOL im lucky if u can see any kind of bumps on my chest if I wear a jumper!! HAHAHA
Gud luck TTc this month! looking forward to hearing about ur BFP!
Tina and Maddison -=- I own about 0 Sexy nickers LOL.. If i ever feel gud enough about myself to wear something like that ill give you a call maddison what kind of Maternity wear do u have? and wheres ur store?
Catkat-=- Whats going on? Have you got af yet? I hate when I get BFNs and no AF.. If our bodies are going to act up, why cant it just be for the reason we want it to be? Hope u get a BFP im likeing seeing them poppin up everywhere atm
Sparkles-=- Good luck TTc again! Glad u got to get ur hair done! BD'in is so much better when u feel gud about ureself hehe
Ferals4 -=- Your last post made me giggle.. couldnt help but picture ur DH looking scared while u stand over him and demand him to "lose the pants" hehehe
Cherished-=- GOOD on ya on the weight loss front!!!!! Ive been trying reallllyy hard and im hopeing ill follow ur trend soon
AFM-=- i have a blocked nose today and feeling all stuffy and bleh.. ive officially been walking for an hour each day for 4 days and have managed to avoid bingeing snack foods and eating crap.. but i think im gonna have to bum out on the wlking for one day..
watched a movie today while boo napped... the number 23.. anyone seen it? it was pretty gud except it had so many sex scenes lol.. glad i watched it alone cuz i kinda felt likt i woudve felt all if id suggested it to watch with someone LOL
hope i got everyone.if i missed any1 hope u are doin ok too! DH wnt be home till 9:30 tonight and i really have to start makeing the effort with him cuz im bout to O in the next few days n been pretty slack on that front tmi i kno..
Hi Kyrawolfe - You so need to get some sexy knickers!! They make you feel good about yourself just wearing them. Oh and they will help with getting dh in the mood to bd on command!! My shop has Ripe, Pea in a Pod, Fertile Mind and Egg maternity wear. So i see pregnant people every day. It probably only bothers me when i do bra fittings for pregnant people and get to see their big pregnant bellies. Makes me wish i had one. But most days im fine with it.
Big congrats to josh'smum!!! that is massive. i wish you a healthy, happy and sticky pg!!!!
i have been lurking around and having the odd read. to be honest i have been trying to have a break from bb. it was doing my head in and started to have the reverse effect and making me stress about m/c again. i feel i am over that anxiety for now which is good. i am trying to keep up with where you all are at. i hope to see a whole lot more of 's very soon.
afm - taking it one day at a time. have my first scan in just under 2 weeks. will be nearly 8 weeks then. still have everything crossed. i think of you all every morning when i go for my walk. you are all inspirational.
Thanks for the update zstar. I love hearing how our pregnant buddies are. You give me so much hope that my turn is coming. Im very happy to hear your pregnancy is progressing well. Please update us after your ultrasound.
evening ladies
cd3, not mush happening
Well we went to the drs today to get hubby finger redressed as he had an accident at tafe and sliced it on sheet metal, kids needles and ask about my cycle, well kainne couldnt get needles as he had a ear infection and when it came to my cycle, the dr said basically that there is nothing wrong with me that i am fertil as i have kids to prove it, and if i was spotting in my cycle for a year then we will discuss something, so i was told to go home and wait and moniter my cycle. Its been 8 months already.
RB kicking in tonight...feeling miserable and sorry for myself even while knowing that I don't have the time/money etc to be preg now...between work and trying to get my business going it feels like I never stop and I'm having a whinge because I am tired, and basically because i can and i know you guys listen and usually understand.
It feels unfair to have gone through 4 m/c, lose 5 angels and just be in limbo if it can ever happen and wondering when I am supposed to have time to bd to even try.
Fingers crossed each of us has a great weekend,,,I'm looking at what i can do to make it feel better and will do a happy post another time
Evening all, hope everyone is having a good week.
I am finally using a computer instead of my phone and it is so much easier, still not my laptop as its still getting fixed but have borrowed a friends. Have also finally added my ticker but its not quite right. Dont like the black background but it wouldnt let me change it and also it says 7 or 8 days till ovulation(cant remember exactly) but by my calculations it should only be about 3 so who knows. Anyway its there so thats the main thing.
Tina no good to hear that RB is kicking in, its a horrible thing and wish it would just go away and leave us alone to have our sticky little bundles. Also i know what you mean about the whole money thing. DB always says to me can we afford to start a family now and i just say to him it will be fine and we will manage, if its what you really want i think you will manage no matter what
Anilla how annoying about the doctor telling you theres nothing they can do and to just go home and wait. Drs can be so insensitive sometimes especially when they havent gone through it themselves. Hopefully things settle down for you and you get that long sort after BFP very soon.
zstar glad to hear everything is going well and good luck with the scan. Make sure you keep us updated on how things are going coz its so lovely to hear
kyra hope the cold goes away soon and you start to feel better so you can start feeling sexy and get to bd with dh just around o time
coco hope dh is not too upset with your comments, but you may be right maybe now he will know how you feel each month getting a bfn, but hopefully the next one is a BFP. Also good to hear that af is no longer painful for you, i was the same with my last one, had no pain and didnt even feel like i had af, very odd but great
Cherished good luck with the accupuncture on monday hopefully it helps to get everything back on track and you fall pg very soon
Ferals at your comment about molesting dh. YOU GO GIRL!! Gotta make the most of every opportunity
Sparkles isnt it just the best feeling getting your hair done, its unreal. Good luck on wednesday getting the all clear to start BD'ing again, god knows thats what we all need to everyone else i may have missed and i hope you are having a good day
Talk to you all soon
Just updated my ticker to cheer me up - it worked swapped from photo of me and my (nearly) 8yr old boy to me and my 'little' car
EliseL: - must be something with lilypie because mine is stuck on black as well.
I won't be on much over the weekend so will have a massive post next Monday to say hi and do persies unless I can sneak on during the weekend. Hope you all have a great weekend.
Thank you all so much for your thoughts. I've haven't done the 'try' thing properly and decided this is my month. I'm driving out home each 2nd day to molest my man...I am sure he will be devastated and will probably need counselling! Just taking a page out of your book Ferrals!
G size boobies? I don't think I could stand upright...my itty bitty b's suit me he he
Anila, should you maybe look at another doc? we know our bodies better than them
he he...noticed I started doing persies ...I'm addicted to this place now
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Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage/Loss July/August 2009
In fact I should never have a bad hair day again GOD BLESS THH GHD
to everyone else xo
I am clearly still looking for stockists outside the box.(the box being newcastle hehe)
dripping. Anyway, it turns out it was AF!
and the flo is just medium
Could you send me your details via PM??
Congrats on AF! Yay ive got my fingers crossed for you that this next month is your time to shine!
maddison what kind of Maternity wear do u have? and wheres ur store?
if id suggested it to watch with someone LOL
's very soon.
...I'm addicted to this place now
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