and just to add, what kind of friend tells you your not fashionable? i dont judge my friends on their clothing.....?
Oh she says it in the nicest way and I probably need it too otherwise I would never get out of my pyjamas or wear a bra! She mentioned that perhaps there may be some occasions that require dressier footwear that birkenstocks and I couldn't think of any, other than weddings!

Okay, I'm going to get me some bikepants from Target and I'll get some 3B cream as well to try out.

Who knew that others did this!? Amazing. I thought I'd be some kind of freak for suggesting it but seems it is not uncommon.

Thanks for the confidence boost guys.