Hun I actually think that once I've finished having kids, I want to be a doula for families going through stillbirth. The reason I want to do this is because it would have meant the world to me to have someone there with me when giving birth to my angel baby who knew exactly what I was going through. I actually think I would have avoided getting post traumatic stress if I'd had a Mum of an angel there with me.

I agree you need to consider the effect on you and if being at the birth is going to be too much then just say no, but if you do go I guarantee you will make such a huge difference to her.

Holding your hand from afar.

Luv Spring xx