I know you will manage. I don't know how, but I know you will. I attended a funeral for my brother's best mate's twins who passed at 10mins and 18 mins. You don't need to say anything. You don't need to do anything. You just need to be there.

You have been through so much pain and suffering over the last nine days. I'm truly sorry.

I hope and pray that Hayley's funeral will be the beginning of a new journey for you. A journey that will never be the same as before - but perhaps, just perhaps, your heart will rest a little better for having said a formal goodbye.

If you need me to be there, please please let me know. I'm more than happy to come.

Gentle love and hugs.