Each OB is different, my only advice would be if your not happy with this one keep looking till you find on you like. you have been through much in the past and I think being 100% confident and happy with your care provider, no matter what birth you chose, is really important. I hope everything goes well and you get your questions answered.
no don't have a problem with him at all. on the contrary, i think he's been great, and i really support his advice. it cost $160 today, and it was worth it, i was with him for about 25 minutes, he answered everything i asked him, and was willing to sit and talk to me. pity he doesn't go through the public system, otherwise i'd got straight back to him, but i just can't afford him