I'm sorry someone said that to you. I guess people just don't understand the impact that thoughtless words can have. That really was an awful thing to say, but you know much better than that - Emmanuel chose the right mummy, who will honour his memory and remember him with love for who he was.
Obviously she is heartless, as anyone who you would allow in your home would know about your precious boy and understand that displaying his photo is your way of remembering him. It would bring me to tears.
Sorry, but I would never let that b!@ch into my house again.
Last edited by Nelle; November 21st, 2009 at 07:28 PM.
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Oh Dianne, I am so sorry you had to hear words like that. I think the frame sounds beautiful and it would be an honour to see Emmanuel and share your memories, its a shame your SIL couldn't see that.
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Oh hun I am so sorry that someone especially family would be so cruel and heartless. Sounds like you have done a beautiful tribute in memory of Emmanual, he certinly picked the right family to be part of as you are remembering him for the beautiful son and brother he was to you all.
I can see how her words would have hurt you. I think it was a very thoughtless comment and your sister obviously didnt use her brain or heart before making it.
Emmanuel will always remain perfect. You keep that picture of him and his hand and footprints in your lounge room and you show them off with pride.
Last edited by Jennifer13; February 2nd, 2010 at 01:05 PM.
Oh my goodness Dianne I cannot grasp the ignorance of this person... I am so incredibly sorry that she was so tactless and - stupid! (I was looking for a more eloquent word but couldn't find one that fitted)
What you have done is beautiful - for your beautiful little boy. Isn't it interesting how so many in our society cannot see the beauty in all children not just the ones that fit a certain criteria...
I send you my love darling woman - and a hug - it must have felt so confronting to hear those thoughtless and ignorant words.
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