thread: How could she be so nasty?

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Dec 2007
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    Oh that is the most thoughtless, hurtful thing to say. Of course he is perfect and he is your precious little guy. Sending you lots of . I would have been furious and let her know about it..grrrr. You did well to control yourself.
    Rach xx

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    In a castle with my princesses
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    Unhappy

    How heartless, she is obviously jealous of your perfect angel boy!

    I am sorry for your loss and sorry your SIL is not more supportive

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Dec 2007
    Geelong
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    Thank you all for your lovely supportive words. I will continue to have his frame hanging proudly in the lounge and as someone said she is the one who should be embarassed. Pitty she is family because if it was a friend I would have told her to leave my house and never come back.

    Regards,
    Dianne

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Nov 2009
    Scottish expat living in Geelong
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    Your tribute to your son sounds beautiful Dianne. I am so sorry you were upset like this by someone who should know better. Be strong

    T
    xx

  5. #5
    smiles4u Guest

    Dianne, i told my DP about your thread in what your SIL said and he said just as you did ... that he would ask her to leave and never come back, but yes it's a hard position to be in when it's family as you have obviously worked out with your actions that it would only make the situation worse and YOU have been through more than enough heartache to deal with anymore !!

    (i'm so sorry to say Dianne but i do think there is a hint of sick jealously like member Queen mentioned before ... For your SIL to say something so incredibly hurtful, ... it's such an ugly, ugly side of a human being ... You just be very aware of her now and if & when you do ' have ' to speak to her just be yourself and nothing less ... but that doesn't mean you have to be warm towards her, YEH stick that up her jumper !!! )