OMG, my heart just broke to think not just anyone but your SIL could say such a hurtful & shocking thing ... she's the one whom should feel ashamed of HERSELF (and this is her nephew she is speaking of) ...

OUR babies are babies, and our babies are BEAUTIFUL not only to us parents but to anyone else who willingly loved them whether they knew them on earth side or not (he was in your tummy & here for sometime, enough time for those that wanted to, to truely care about him ... yes Auntie's included) ...

I'm so so glad you have placed him for all to see just as he was & always will be part of your own loving family xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox