I'm I overeacting

[Kazzo]

Welcome, sorry that you are joining under such sad circumstances. I am sorry for your loss. What a beautlful name for your princess.

I agree with Trish. Tell them to make a copy straight away and give you back your memory card. You need those photos and they should be considerate.

[krysalyss]

You aren't over reacting at all. While I wouldn't necessarily think your DH went behind your back I do think it was risky for him to lend out your other copy. And that they have had them too long. You need to get them back as soon as you can to at least make another copy as a back up.