yeh i kind of want to, but given that she's pregnant as well, i just don't know how to broach the subject without it sounding bad. and then i feel like she would get distant and not say anything to me about her baby, i don't know......seriously she's such a brainy girl i don't understand how she can be so clueless and just not willing to 'go there' when it's obviously hugely significant to me.....
Maybe you could just talk about him in general converstation and gauge her reaction. If she looks uncomfortable you could ask her why she's so uncomfortable talking about your baby and go from there. I really do think it's because she doesn't know what to say to you. Maybe she doesn't want to make you upset or uncomfortable if she talks about her pregnancy