Massive Hun I'm so sorry your going through this and dealing with all these emotions alone.

My mum still to this day is emotional on my brothers birthday and anniversary, it's 24yrs on and she says the pain will never just disappear.

I hope you can find a way to celebrate her birthday (if that's what you wish to do) that everyone can respect and possibly join in.

Boo to your mum & SIL for being so insensitive.


Sent from my iPhone, more than likely while I should be doing something else!