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thread: This just sucks.

  1. #19
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    I agree, the second one is just beautiful

  2. #20
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    Jun 2008
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    I like 2 and 6.

    A friend has a lovely one for her daughter. It's stone, with a stained glass insert of a rainbow that the sun shines through. I'd be scared someone would break it though.

    I'm sorry you're going through this but I know how important it is to get everything right. Take your time.

  3. #21
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    Jan 2008
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    i like 6, but you could also word it as 'we said hello whilst saying good bye"????

    i like the blue colour too...

    if you cant decide but cant keep doing 'this' then i suggest you set a date to decide??? We did the for our wills so totally not the same but it was an emotional time and i just dont think we would have ever got there if we just didnt set a date.......

    anyway who am i to talk about this stuff...... hugs!

  4. #22
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    Oh Teni I like the sentiment of #2 with the "beloved firstborn"

    It's strange, but I was looking at some Dr Who / Torchwood merchandise, and there are buttons "I Ianto" and "Team Ianto (he has a Pterodactyl)" and was thinking should get a button for you.

  5. #23
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    I like the second one

  6. #24
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    I like both 2 and 6.

    Hugs and thinking of you.

  7. #25
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    I like the 2nd one also, the wording is beautiful.
    I am so sorry you are going through this

  8. #26
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    I rememmber doing our angels & writing and rewriting it so many times

  9. #27
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    teni. They are beautiful.

    I like the 6th one best.

    I think the date would look nicer at the bottom though.

    Like:

    Photo top centre

    Name name name

    Beloved 1st born of name & name

    We said hello at the same time we said goodbye

    Date

  10. #28
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    Apr 2011
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    Tenibear
    DH and I did this in March and its one of the hardest thing we have had to do. We had the same problem picking the fitting words to have a photo or not too what style colour. If you would like to to give me an email addy i could email you a pic am unsure on how to add pics here.

  11. #29
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    I really like 1 and 2!!
    They are gorgeous..
    I remember doing isaiah's it's the worst feeling ever having to try pitting your feelings and love for them in a couple of sentences
    Huge
    They are all gorgeous hun xoxo

    Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk xoxox

  12. #30
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    I really like photo 2 it's lovely and i like the wording

  13. #31
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    I think they are all really nice Teni. I think out of all of them i like #2 the best though
    Goodluck with the right one, i too believe that the right wording will just come to you
    xx

  14. #32
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    Teni - you're right, it does suck. There is no easy way around it. If you want it done, then you're the one that will do it, you and Scott and Amelia. But I know how you wish you didn't have to. I know how much it costs and how much that makes it all so much harder. Seriously... it costs HOW MUCH???? It just add to the grief.

    Just sit with each one a while, and you will know. It's too important a decision to rush. You need to feel comfortable. But having said that you have known all along.

    Everything that you create for Ianto, is beautiful, and each one just shines with your love for him.

  15. #33
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    Teni, I like number 6, it made me cry

    You have given me a little inspiration, I have to tackle this and do my daughters as well.

    thank you and hope you are happy with the results, keep me posted, would love to know if you are happy with that company.

  16. #34
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    Teni, I'm sorry that you have to do this
    I like 2 and 6, probably 2 better.

    I hope you can get what you really want xx


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  17. #35

    Oct 2010
    Baldivis, WA
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    Teni honey, big hugs xx

    I like number 2 ... With the photo of number 6. I know Amelia wasn't around but maybe add something like proud big brother to amelia? Xx

    Sorry you have to do this. This must be so hard for you xx

    If you need to chat just inbox k? X

    Sent from my iPhone (via Tapatalk) so please forgive the spelling mistakes...

  18. #36
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    Aug 2007
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    Hubbys been gone nearly 18 months , and everytime i sit down to do it i cry and cry some more , i think i know what i want but not what everyone else wants . I like all your deisgns they are all beautiful im sure what ever u decide on with be perfect - Take ur Time .

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