The absolute best piece of comfort I received after I lost my first baby was from my brother in law (they had lost a baby the year before). All he said was 'it does get better'. And it does, it does get easier with time. I still have my sad moments almost two years on, but it is easier to have them now than it was then.

I like what cindyb said - you reach a new type of normal.

I'm sorry for the loss of your little girl.