I hate Mothers day too.. Last year though I spent the day with another Mum who had lost her twin girls about 10 days before me in a really similar situation (scarily similar, her bubs were 24wks and survived for 11 and 12 days.) I took my scrap books up to her place and we shared pics and stories. It was a nice day. I felt like a normal Mum talking about her children.. This year, I'm on call for work. I hate it too because my Mum lives so far away so I can't even see her. Mothers day sux.