I've been thinking about posting this for a few days now but I haven't because I've been worried about whether it would be inappropriate and I don't want to upset anyone.

But I think I'm ready to start thinking about getting my baby girl a headstone and I would like help to find the perfect thing to put on it. I've been thinking of something like the following,
I think I'm set on the beginning unless someone has another suggestion

"In loving memory of
Isabel Ann ......
14/2/2009
Not sure if we should have the date like that or like
"14th Febuary 2009"

It's the next part that I'm having the most trouble with I've been thinking of either of the following
"Much loved daughter of Luke and Kylie
and sister to a miscarried twin.
Forever in our hearts"
or
"Much loved daughter of Luke and Kylie.
And
Her/Isabel's Twin
2008
Forever in our hearts."

I'm not sure about loved because it's past tense but I still love her, and I would like to mention her twin but I don't want to take away from Isabel it is her headstone after all.

I'm not sure but very open to any other suggestion because I feel that if I can't look after her in life then I want to look after her in death and this will be a standing memorial to her forever so I want it to be absolutly perfect.

Please any suggestion would be more than appreciated.