So many....

[Mum2SweetCs]

There do seem to be alot of full term angels being born lately. I often avoid the threads about it because my heart aches too much for my mind to even bear the thought. It is so terribly sad that anyone has to go through losing a loved one at all, but for a parent to have to say hello and good bye to their precious little baby in one breath is all too heatbreaking. My soul aches for all of the parents who have had to do it. Life is just not fair sometimes.

Totally agree.

It just breaks my heart hearing all these stories. I silently followed yours Tashybabe and yours Skybie. I am always lost for words. It was so heartbreaking for me to read let alone for you guys to experience it first hand...

[Beautiful Disaster]

Hi Ladies. I am not a member of your crappy club as you call it but very close to Kobz. She herself doesnt know what happened at this stage but I am sure when she is feeling up to it she will hopefully let us all know. We have been through so much in our BB group and have all gotten so close. When i got the txt i couldnt believe it. Still cant. Im sorry to all of you that have or are going on this same journey.
Those are some pretty scary statistics.

[skybie]

We do it because we have to.

i dont enjoy injecting myself with insulin everyday, but i do it because i have to

What choice did we have really? one of the hardest, saddest days of our lives, but for me now, i can look back on his birthday and smile when i think of him.

[MrsBexie]

Ladies I am so sorry. I wish I knew some super magical thing that could stop this from happening and bring your angels back. I have no idea what it would feel like but my heart shatters everytime I read another story or even see a signature that has the little angels in it. It honestly physically hurts me to think of a mother losing her baby.

I am so very sorry from the bottom of my heart.

[TeniBear]

That's awful lilias

I've thought the same thing about we "stillborn mummies" being lucky in a sense...


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[Rainbow_Mumma]

That's one thing I'm grateful for too although I'm not a stillborn mumma I got to birth my baby and see him and hold him after he passed away.

I got told today that Anthonys passing can't effect me as much as a full term still birth because I didn't have as long to bond with him, he was 25 weeks, he wa alive for 3 hours how can that not hurt as much??


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[Bumperstump Cummerbund]

Wow Skybie, you've given me a new perspective I always figured that no matter how much I missed my babies, being only 6 weeks, it would be so much worse to lose a baby that looks like a baby y'know? And I don't apply that to anyone else, only myself strangely. It's why I'm hesitant to post in the stillborn/late loss threads, because I feel like I have no experience to draw from and you'd all be thinking 'what do YOU know?'

Baby loss is fricken awful, no matter how old

[~Hestia~]

I wouldn't even try to put myself in the same situation as all of you amazingly strong women. But I remember when I miscarried being astounded that the clocks were still ticking & the world was still turning, like nothing had happened. If that was just a tiny piece of the pain that you all experienced, I can't even begin to imagine how much it hurt

I think of you all everyday. Tashybabe, Skybie & now Aharuni to name a few

[skybie]

for me atm its like the worlds in fast forward and im sitting in it motionless. i worry that one day i'll get left behind

[mummydreamer]

for me atm its like the worlds in fast forward and im sitting in it motionless. i worry that one day i'll get left behind

oh my gosh that is EXACTLY how i feel!! i already feel like i've been left behind, and im still just going through the motions, wondering why the heck i don't have my baby?? and everyone has started moving on.....i just feel so lost.....

[finona77]

for me atm its like the worlds in fast forward and im sitting in it motionless. i worry that one day i'll get left behind

I feel like that too ... some days I want to hop into the wardrobe, close the door and block out the world - some days I just can't cope with it all.