Hi hun, So sorry for your loss. As for your MIL or anyone else that is going to focus on the 25%, just say I have 75% of everything being ok. Alot better odds than the 25% you keep drumming into my head. So hun, just remind everyone 75%. If they keep going on and on about it, see them less often as once you are UTD again you dont need any more stress than what you will have with your own worries needalone having others make you feel even more anxious worried and nervous.
Tale care hunni, and all the best for your next pgcy. hugs