We've just had #4...and whilst there is no more for us, i feel the snip is too final - right now. Its hard to expain...girlfriends and mum have said 'but if your not having any more, why not get the snip'......i feel like its all too fresh for me ATM...its all too final. OUr dr also said he is too young (he is 37 !!!!!!!)......so im just going to get an IUD in the meantime.....theres plenty of time for the 'snip'.

But i do fully understand what you are talking about......its a chapter of your life over, its the pregnancy and baby making days gone forever...its very sad in a way, but yet exciting in another. I guess we're all different. Some people relish this time, love it when this time comes....but for me...well, i cant help feeling a little sad.