My DH is exactly the same. He is booked in for Dec 15 for his. He came home from his initial consultation and was fine yet I was a mess. I know in his mind he would probably love to have 10 children but we know 5 are more than enough for us. I know it is the right thing for me yet I have still been emotional about it. I'm okay for now, but I know that will probably change on Dec 15.
My dh is getting it done soon too. I wanted to wait til this bub is here safety before getting it done and dh wanted to wait til this one is out to make sure I didn't change my mind. If someone just handed me the baby and I didn't have to go through the pregnancy I would have another one but there is no way I could face another pregnancy. I'm happy with 3. Good luck to you and your dh. It is very confronting because it is a major event. It's not something you just get done and can think the next day I've changed my mind now lets just undo it. I think all this goes through my head alot more than dh's. I think when you day comes for dh to get it done I will probably be a mess lol. Good luck!
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