Sex after vasectomy

[BellyBelly]

Its not desire or ability... its purely sensation based. Normally before an ejaculation there is that build-up, rush, tingle whatever you want to call it - intensity. But he doesn't get that any more, its more the motions of it happening with less feeling for him.

[Trillian]

Maybe that might be something that will improve over time? Or is he able to really take the time to build up to a climax?

[willow5]

My XH didn't have any issues like that sorry he said it was no different. I hope it improves for him.

[AnyDream]

Sorry, I can't comment on the vasectomy-specific side of things, but my experience with surgery involving a larger body area is that the nerves can and do grow back. I'm pretty sure that healing effect would be more noticeable for a vasectomy where the incisions are comparatively small and the area enjoys a good blood supply. But by all means, get him to talk to the urologist for reassurance, especially if he's still having some pain at times. But it may just be a case of needing longer to recover. Surgery is *always* an assault on the body.

PS - as a believer in energetic-medicine, I'm inclined to comment that surgery can disrupt the energetic anatomy too. Remedial energetic strategies could involve reiki or similar, yoga/chi kung/tantric breathing exercises, and even acupuncture/acupressure. HTH