Hi Susie,

LOL don't worry about it sounding like a lecture. ATM he is not too bad, He seems to have a period where he is totally of his head around about his bday in July until the end of 3rd term.

We are trying to be more consistent and he loses his xbox, which is his fav thing in the world. So we are doing the things you mentioned. I also try to talk to him at times, it is a short lived change from that. He is just being a boy and a kid I guess, sometimes it really gets to me. It also depends on other factors how stressed I get, ie what else is going on and how the other kids are too as to how I cope LOL. 4 kids means lots of things happening all at once, so it can be stressfulLOL

Thanks for your input.

Cheers mcihelle