Im going to exercise my common courtesy and say THANK YOU for the replies!!

Ive never had a problem with DSS manners...from the day he walked in its always been please and thank you and have never had to prompt him otherwise...so it is good that he will speak up for her and say thank you on her behalf, but he shouldnt have to IMO...this girl is nearly 18 and is quite old enough to speak up for herself as far as Im concerned....he wont do anything about it though (in so much as speaking up for himself and telling her off)...he is far too blinded by love/lust to do anything to rock the boat!! lol!!

But yes, I will be saying something to DSS before her next visit......during a discussion on another issue DSS was having with hubby, hubby did bring the issue up (as I had brought it up with him about an hour previously)...DSS has obviously gone back to his room and told his g/f what Ive said, cos she was staring daggers at me for the rest of the visit!! lol!!

So again, everybody, THANK YOU!!!