DD1 needs help again

[Catastrophic]

Sending lots of hugs and love. xoxox I hope that your doing okay xox

[KimB]

Well DD is telling lies again. She has told a friend of mine that DF called her " a f-ed up junky whore" At no time has he ever called her this. She is making stuff up to suit the situation again and she loves to play the poor me victim. I hope when she gets older and remembers what she has done she will be very embarrassed and ashamed. Times like this I'm glad she doesn't live here

[diannescruffy]

What an awful situation, thinking of you.

Regards,
Dianne

[feeb]

Oh hun hugs so sorry to hear she is saying such horrible things.

Hope things improve soon.

xoxo

[KimB]

Thanks ladies but from what I am hearing about her she is spiralling down hill very fast.

She has been banned from her best friends house for yelling at their front door "do you know who I can buy some pot from?" She has also stolen some from the friend of the lady she works the horses with and then made up lies about him being a major drug dealer. She told my eldest DS and he told us and my DF was prepared to go to the police about it but I convinced him to let me check it out first. I'm hanging my head in shame here about her behaviour.

I no longer know what to do but I do know that until she is better she is not welcome here. If she is going back to stealing and telling lies then she can do it elsewhere. She is also telling people that my dad gave her pot when she stayed with him. I phoned him and he denies it. I believe him. He has never sold to minors and I know he would never give any to her. My dad was very shocked about her but he said we are doing the right thing by letting her leave. My mum has said that she has had trouble believing anything she says to her, for a number of years now. How sad is it when your own family won't believe you. I have tried to tell professional people about S for years but she pulls the poor me victim and they believe her. She is a master manipulator and we can't trust her in any thing. I have to take Miss P back to the GP on Wednesday so will tell him then that S has moved out and what she is doing.

Just what I don't need right now - more stress on top of my depression. Just once I would like to have it easy but no!! Worrying about DD1 and the 2 kids with diabetes and the new born and my life just sucks right now.

[Footsteps]

Oh huge hugs huni. Sounds like things are really hard atm but I'm praying things improve for you all. Thinking of you huni xxxx


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[diannescruffy]

Oh hun I feel for you so very much xxx.

Regards,
Dianne

[feeb]

You are an amazing mummy for juggling so much huge hugs xoxo

[PumpkinZulu]

just wanted to offer you my support. You're dealing with so much and doing such a good job keeping it all together.

[Catastrophic]

Big hugs lovey xoxox

[sahbear]

Big hugs Kim. hopefully things start to turn a corner soon xx

[EsJay]

just want to send some hugs,m it all sounds like such a lot to deal with. I really hope she sorts herself out soon. I hope you are ok, make sure you are looking after you too