With my DD re: Being touched I always tell her, her private parts is something NO ONE can touch, and if anyone ever does, she is to tell us straight away. I also tell her to tell me if anyone touches her in an way the SHE feels uncomfortable.

Re - Masturbation - I am not prepared to let my 8yo know what masturbation is - why does she need to know that? She doesnt FYI DD has never touched/played wit herself like that.

Sorry to hear you were abused